Well, I've heard from the siblings regarding Grandpa's post. I've read what Nikki said on her Comments. I've tried to answer questions and...and....and..Here's my scoop. I did go with Dad to hear what the doctor had to say. I did hear the doctor question why he was there (the other doctor told me to come), what signs did he have (a have this thing on my head, no I don't have any nausea, no I haven't been losing weight, no I have no knots anywhere, no, the labs didn't seem to know what it was,) Then, I heard him say, well, it takes a special guy at Barnes to even diagnose this, and, you know you aren't to old to receive any help if you might need it, and.... then I heard Dad say..., and then I said to Dale, I think Dad wants to....Having had my share of tests and listening to doctors, and making my own decisions regarding the future, I think a person needs to do what he/she thinks is right. I say go on Dad, continue to enjoy your life, do what you want to do, don't do the things you don't want to do, and YOU decide when you would like to get more information or whatever. Just keep on doing what you do best, being YOU!! God has taken very good care of you so far, and I know He'll continue to do so in the future. From the phone calls and the queries I get, I know that your children and grandchildren love you very much and would move heaven and earth for you!!! All you have to do is let any one of them know...... Any one else have a say?